Thursday, December 30, 2010

Christmas in North Carolina

While we only ended up staying in North Carolina for a mere 40 hours or so, we were so glad to be able to celebrate Christmas with family, especially those whom we don't get to see as often. The kids really enjoyed themselves and playing with their cousins despite the real lack of sleep of which we all became victims during this trip (I blame it on excitement and the five of us sharing a room... and Abigail, who was apt to awake and sing songs in the 4 o'clock hour). I really wish we could have stayed on, but our decision was made for us yesterday morning after a particularly rough night, encroaching illness and one child in particular who was in rare form (issues of graciousness and sleep deprivation-- too much Christmas excitement? Definitely too many gifts, which we plan on doing everything in our power to tone down next year- for all of us). He is doing so much better now after catching up on some sleep- poor little guy.

From Christmas in North Carolina

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
They sat like this for like five minutes (Mickey or something was on tv).

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
The grandkids descend on Pop.

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
"Beeep-BOOOO!"

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From Christmas in North Carolina
Abigail really adored Zoe, who was wonderful with all of the kids. At mealtimes, Gail would say, "I wanna sit by her."

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
These two were so funny. Olive kept leaning in to Iris face to give her licks/gentle head nudges.


From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
We regretted that we didn't get to stay for Aunt Jean's annual Christmas brunch with that whole side of the family the morning after we left.

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
Breakfast at Western Steak House right before we left to drive home.

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
On the drive home through the beautiful mountains of West Virginia. She fell asleep almost immediately once in the car.

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
"I drew me!" He went on to draw other family members- the most precious things I've ever seen. Once it was Gail's turn with it, she kept asking us to take pictures of her indiscernible scribbles- "It's a muffin!" "It's a kite!" So sweet.

When we arrived home, I went down to the basement to start some laundry and stepped on a wet rug- never good. Fortunately (thank God!), the leak had JUST started, so there wasn't much water, and we were able to sop up the rest from the source with towels. This morning, we got a brand new water heater installed (the last one was from '89). It's nice to be able to go without things like hot water or heat or electricity for a day here and there just to put things in perspective. Washing my hair in ice water was a real shock but refreshing afterward.

Mike and I have been taking turns with the kids at home so we can catch up some on sleep. I didn't get up for good until after noon today- and Iris had an almost 13 hour sleep stretch last night. Both of those are new records at our house. We have Mike home until the fourth, so hopefully we'll all be fully recovered and ready to start a new year by then.

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

SUUUUCHasweeitiedoll (seven months)

From 12/29/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/29/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
Mike and I say just about every day that we didn't think she could get any sweeter, but she continues to pull it off. It's the truth. Even when she's sick with a completely clogged nose and mild fever, as she's been off and on these past few days. And during all that, out of our three, she's definitely slept the best despite traveling to Maryland and then to North Carolina and back home. But she wasn't as overwhelmed by Christmas activities and presents as they were either.

Her nightly sleep stretches continue to last around 10-11 hours before waking to nurse and be changed from a heavily soiled diaper (lately we've been having to use disposables at night to keep her from completely soiling her sleeper and the bedding around her). Considering her three or so daily naps, she sleeps around 15-16 hours a day. It's astounding to me (and such a blessing!).

From 12/27/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
She's been perfecting her backward inching and scooting 360 degrees, but that about sums up her mobility. And I'm perfectly content with how sedentary she is. Still no rolling from back to stomach, but there's a lot of weight to roll over. She's about 20 lbs now and really tires my arms out quickly these days. I expect that once she starts to move around a bit more in the next month or two, she'll begin trim down some. But we do love those dimples and rolls.

From 12/29/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
She's doing well with solids, eating more and more adult table food. Still no sign of teeth, as I'd expect (the other two didn't get theirs 'til around 8-9 months). I'll take that toothless gum for a while longer. She'll occasionally nurse other than at night, which is nice, but she's got to be pretty tuckered out to do so. Pumping 8-12 oz three or four times a day gets old, but it won't last forever, and is totally worth it considering the alternative.

Her vocals have been getting quite a work-out- she's been saying a lot of "dadas" and "ah-duhs" and "bahs." Jack and Gail are wonderful with her and are always giving her kisses and attention and volunteering to bring her a toy (Gail has started to request "pony rides" for her on my knees as well). Iris thinks it's so funny when her big sister plays "Bee-BOO!" (peek-a-boo) with her (they've made a habit of doing this in the car, since Abigail sits directly behind her). Abigail still enjoys going to get her from naps (and climbing in her crib with her) and holding her (with assistance).

I can't say enough what a blessing this precious little girl has been in our lives so far. She adds so much to our family. As always, we can't wait to see what this next month will bring.

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Christmas in Pittsburgh

We just got back from our family visits in Maryland and North Carolina (one day earlier than we anticipated- and to a puddly basement (broken hot water heater)). More to come on those- pictures and thoughts- but here are a few shots of our Christmas at our house (more on the right).

From Christmas eve and day 2010

From Christmas eve and day 2010

From Christmas eve and day 2010

From Christmas eve and day 2010

From Christmas eve and day 2010

From 12/25/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From Christmas eve and day 2010

From Christmas eve and day 2010

Friday, December 24, 2010

o, holy night



For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Saviour, who is Christ the Lord. ~Luke 2:11

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Psalty and the sea kittens

Jack spends his days and nights living out one of three or four character personas. If we call him Jack, he'll quickly correct us-- "No, I'm a diiinosaur!"- or whatever it is that he is pretending to be at the moment. The utmost is Psalty, a big blue, anthropomorphic song book. We have two of the series of Kids Praise albums on cassette, and both Jack and Abigail insist that we listen to "Psalty" every time we're in the van. That's our only cassette player that works. When he's Psalty, Jack wears a smallish box over his head as a book. He sings the songs from the albums and recites the little in-between anecdotes word-for-word (and with the correct expressions). When we're in church and they cantor announces the hymn number before a song, he asks me to turn his pages.

From christmastime is near... happiness and cheer

An herbivorian T-rex is his second-most alter-ego. He walks around on his tippy-toes and scrunches up his arms into his chest. He'd make you believe he's more than a mite ferocious as he belts, "I'm gonna eat ALL the leaves! Roooooaaarrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!" Simply terrifying.

From 12/22/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

He's also frequently a conductor and a "sea kitten." I'm not sure about the latter, but Abigail often follows suit-- the two of them flopping around the house like fish out of water, mewing and yelping for some food scraps and scratches. Sick kids.

Jack has a t-shirt that is perfect for him, though I feel a bit guilty at times putting it on him, as it's so true, and he doesn't really understand the humor of it yet. It has a bunch of robots advancing with the words I DON'T HAVE A MUTE BUTTON written. And if you've spent time with us at all, you've probably come to learn the appropriateness of it. We try to subtly explain to him that it's not always polite to talk so much, but it's really too heartbreaking, so we often just absorb his lengthy words. At times my exhaustion at the end of the day comes from having to be mentally aware of all of his pretend talk-- he usually requires a response to keep me on my toes, and sometimes, it's all I can do to keep nodding and saying, "Uh huh. That is neat!" Bless his heart. He's such a sweet, sweet boy.

He has been super-eager to set the table for dinner lately, though Mike and I never mentioned it. When we had guests this past weekend, he thought up setting the table all on his own. I'd hand him the plates to set out, and after doing so, he'd immediately come back in and ask what else he could do. Between him setting the table and Abigail unloading the dishwasher, we have a nice little restaurant staff.

one of my favorite times of day

Who wouldn't love to be greeted by this?

From christmastime is near... happiness and cheer

sweet expectations

Two older women at church asked the kids if Santa was coming to our house soon.

Abigail smiled really big, looked down sheepishly and said, "If I'm good, she might bring me a kitty cat toothbrush" (yes, she).

Monday, December 20, 2010

an entertaining weekend

Last night, Mike and I enjoyed some adult conversation and fun with our friends, Steve and Monica. After dinner, and after we put the kids to bed, we played a game that the Mehaffeys brought- "Betrayal At House on the Hill." An extraordinarily entertaining game, especially when Steve turned on us all and ate our brains, turning us into his pack of bloodthirsty zombies. Really fun times. The game lasted nearly three hours! Good thing we enjoyed their company. Ha- no, it was a really fun game. Plus, Monica brought a delicious homemade cheesecake that we enjoyed amidst all of the gore. I'd like to add that my husband (a 62-year-old priest) was the first to die... and Monica (a thirteen-year-old boy) held her own against eleven zombies for the better part of the game. Props.

Ours was a busy weekend, as we also had our neighbors (an 86 year-old woman and her son) over for dinner on Saturday night. The kids love going over to their house (when their wiener dog, Pepper, is confined to the back room and not nearly knocking them down) to hear their battery-operated, singing and moving Christmas decorations. But we figured we'd have them over since they've never been here. I thought it might be a challenge to cook a meal for them as Peg has no teeth, but she seemed to fare well with the broccoli and cheese soup and pumpkin pie. We skipped the game playing, though they did fill us in on all of the neighborhood gossip- didn't know a man hung himself in the garage behind our house. But Peg was excited when we mentioned she'd have to come over to play Are You Smarter than a Fifth Grader?- the board game version of the popular game show of which she's such a fan.

Friday, December 17, 2010

cute (owlet addendum)

Every time she sees me wearing my polar bear pjs--

Abigail: "Mom, you're so cuuute in those pajaaamas!"

me: "Thanks. You're cute."

Abigail: "No, YOU'RE so cuuuuute!"

our little hoot

From 12/17/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
This little girl has been a mix of super-sweet and super-well- read The girl with a curl. But oh, do we love her so. I started this post last week when she was officially 2 1/2 years old, but time has continued to get away from me.

From 12/17/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
She has a small obsession with owls and often makes hooting sounds at random, after which she will curiously look around the room and exclaim, "Did you hear that? I fink it was a scaaary owl!" She saw a pair of pajamas at Target today that had little owls all over them. I asked her if she liked them, and she gave me a look of Are you crazy?! But she did request that we get them for Olive. Not sure if she was being thoughtful or throwing her cousin under the bus. Regardless, we came away with them. Heather, your daughter is getting owl pajamas for Christmas. Hoot!

Last night was the first night I've known Abigail to have a nightmare. She awoke, crying. Mike went up to check on her, and her sobs became hysterical. After a few minutes of stroking her head to calm her, I got her to at least say "yeah" when I asked her if she'd had a bad dream and-- "A monster," as her frightened eyes darted around the room. Jack's constant gabbing about monsters had gotten the poor girl scared out of her wits.

Last week, when we were at Steak n Shake, there was a bigger couple sitting not too far from us. The woman got up to use the restroom. I held my breath and tried to distract Abigail's attention away as she stared at the large woman walking past, very slowly. But it was too late. "She's bigger." I'm hoping the woman was out of ear shot.

Our friend, Beatrix (and her mom and brother, Emmitt, who's a week younger than Iris) came over yesterday, and I thought she and Abigail were two peas in a pod. They followed each other around playing baby and then princess. I got out Abigail's princess hat that I made for her a few weeks ago, which she showed really no interest in at the time. After Beatrix wanted to wear that one instead of the one she'd worn to our house, Abigail is now finally giving it a chance (Thanks, Bea!).

From 12/17/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
But it's been hard to get a shot of her wearing it-- she floats when it's on her head.

From 12/17/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
When Abigail's not wearing it, Jack has delegated it to Foxy Loxy's head. It's easier to get a decent shot of it on her. She's not so flighty.

Besides her delightful and challenging sides, she seems to have a bit of a sick sense of humor- I'd say not unlike the women on my side of the family. She loves to sing, and she often asks me to "sing the sing about the babies falling." I still have yet to figure that out (I've tried Rockabye Baby and Ring Around the Rosie with no luck), but she frequently brings it up and shows a disturbing delight at the thought of these babies falling.

When we were in Wisconsin while on our long trip, Abigail asked Grandpa Ryan to draw a picture of a baby. He acquiesced, and right after, Abigail scribbled vigorously right over the baby with a red crayon exclaiming, "It's fire!" with a bit of a crazed look, I might add. Just recently, she did something very similar, but I can't recall the exact event. I have to try to stop myself from laughing when she does things like this. She does like the attention, and sometimes I think she tries to attain it through actions like these. I just like to record these things while I'm thinking of them, as I know I'll want to remember in later years. Tell her what a nut she was. And how she fits right into our family.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

festive felt cookies

After making all of those felt Jesse tree ornaments, I thought about how easy it would be to sew up a few treats. So I did for some little gifts.

From 12/14/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

From 12/14/2010 (by Eye-Fi)

Inspires me to stitch up a bunch more menu items- cookies just seemed like very simple objects for starters. If the kids are ever in need of any ingredients in their kitchen, I'll be able to whip some up. They're practical-- cute and cheap and not plastic. I wanted to make some more cookie-cutter shapes with "icing", but I ran out of the tan felt, and I was using only materials I had on hand since I haven't been able to make it to the Joanne's (That's been my bribe to get Jack to take daily naps: "If you don't take a nap, Mom's going to take you to the craft store." But I haven't been there- see? You do what works.)

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Playmobile and the baby Jesus

From 12/14/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
I thought about getting the Playmobile nativity set out a few days ago, but Mike was home, and the kids were amusing themselves nicely. That would have been a waste. So I saved it for a less than easy-going morning. This morning.

From 12/14/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
Jack was captivated by it for a long while. I put together the cardboard setting, but he set the rest of the scene up entirely by himself, carefully surrounding baby Jesus with all of the other little figures- Mary and Joseph foremost . Brother knew what was up.

From 12/14/2010 (by Eye-Fi)
Abigail, on the other hand, well-- "Where is Baby Jesus, Mama? Where is she? I can't find her."

From 12/14/2010 (by Eye-Fi)