Monday, January 9, 2012

all on a Monday morning

Jack woke up with a bad-sounding cough, which he's had for a few nights now, and I may have been too hasty to ask if he wanted to stay home (he did, of course). He skipped on Friday, too, so we could party on Epiphany, and Gail missed on Tuesday (inclement weather). I'm beginning to really love hooky days.

There are all too many days when the mere thought of homeschooling exhausts me. For the past couple of weeks, however, the days when they've all been home have been so enjoyable... the kids have been delightful, and I've felt so at peace, all of it by the grace of God. I've been yearning for more of these days when we're all at home. While I hope that having them home every single day is a part of God's plan for our future, right now I'm trying to revel in their occasional days off.

We had all sorts of fun this morning. We played "pretend" for the longest time, Jack an orphaned baby kinkajou, whom I adopted; Abigail, an especially high-maintenance newborn ballerina, named Delaney (what else?); and Iris a number of players, including a kitten, a baby and a ballerina.

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I love when pretend play includes a nap.

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Jack and Gail made doughnuts and "golf balls" out of Play-Doh, which we made use of for numbers practice, while Iris peered through some picture books and sweetly named the mostly upside-down pictures.

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making oinking noises

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The big kids did some coloring/activity pages and flash cards at their own request (which, again, gives me hope about homeschooling, their excitement and taking an initiative to learn- especially when I may fail). Abigail is so close to getting all of her letters, which she's been wanting to go over about ten times a day. Her confusion now lies with 'V' and 'Y'-- one can see why. And increasingly less often, 'C', which she sometimes mistakes for a 'K'- again, understandable. We told her when she nails them all consistently, we'll reward her with a special surprise (not that I'm the least bit worried about her progress in this- she just thrives on the encouragement and has been showing such a great interest in learning letters as of late). I've already ordered the music of Tchaikovsky's Swan Lake for her so we don't have to listen to #14 from Ever After on repeat. We do now. It's the best "dancing song" we've got to offer. We also danced, in costume, I in my dress (which I discovered was actually my grandmother, Honey's), as Abigail said I can't dance if I'm not wearing it.

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taking turns with some 3-D glasses that were lying around...

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I'm thankful for these moments today. For these dears.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Opportunity

Abigail: "Jack, do you know what a poppornuninie is? It's when you can do something. It's when you can learn something."

Friday, January 6, 2012

baby doll

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We joined the Wards last night for our weekly pizza night (and the Cramers, too), and Abigail was quite in her element with little Laney, whom Heather mistook as a doll when she came. Abigail adores babies and was so pleased to just sit there (or lie) on the couch holding a live one. So sweet.

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Thursday, January 5, 2012

Iceberg

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We're having an Epiphany party at our house tomorrow morning with a bunch of moms from my Catholic Moms group, so the kids and I went to Trader Joe's today after we got Gail from school to pick up some snack-type foods. I haven't been to the store with all three of them (or any of them, for that matter) in a long time, but the whole outing was a pleasant one. We got beautiful flowers, for one. I love the picks from Trader Joe's. The kids were all in good spirits... well-behaved... considerate... even helpful. And as we were nearing the last aisle, I spied a stuffed Emperor Penguin stuffed way back on one of the lower shelves. I pointed him out to the kids and said that some poor kid had probably put him back there while playing and was missing his buddy right now. I was glad Iris didn't mistake him for her own "Chick-Chick" penguin puppet that she got for Christmas. We walked him up to the front of the store, where I got a woman's attention and told her my suspicions about the lost friend. She had a spark of mischief in her eyes as I handed the penguin to her, and she told us to wait right there. She told the man sitting behind the little closed in office area, and he perked up, "Ah! Where did you find him?" I told him, and he commanded the woman, who had already gone to get a Trader Joe's reusable bag that was filled with something, "Give them a lot of treats!" Then he spoke to the kids, "You found Iceberg!" Jack had been holding a reusable bag of our own, and the woman asked if she should just put the treats in his bag. I said "sure," still not sure myself what was going on. It was all very bizarre. The kids were excited as heck, though, and now Jack has the idea that he's going to hide his animal friends and have our party guests find them tomorrow for "extra food." So, take heed, if you venture to the Bethel Park Trader Joe's, keep an eye out for a rather large stuffed penguin, and you too could be the recipient of a few fistfuls of organic fruit leathers and candy sticks.

picking up the slack

From 01/05/2012 (by Eye-Fi)

Tonight, when I was making dinner, Abigail asked me to do her flashcards with her. We do these multiple times a day, and she's gotten to where she only misses five or six now- the same ones consistently-- c,d,f,g,v,w. Anyway, I couldn't put aside what I was doing right then, so I was thankful for Jack, who piped right in and said that he'd play with her. He kept praising her when she'd get one right. They were so sweet, I had to stop and snap a picture.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

moms can be princesses, too

I haven't been too much of a New Years Resolutioner over the years, but who doesn't at least give an inward look for possible self-betterment when a new year arrives? So, I decided to make one "resolution," if you will (in addition to the every-day goals to be a better mother and wife, a healthier, more faithful person, etc.). I've been trying to be more timely about fulfilling (reasonable) requests and more attentive to the kids in general. But I've found myself too often falling into the trap of saying, "After I finish [x], I'd be happy to," when I could easily just drop the silly household tasks I find myself doing throughout a day to play Ring Around the Rosie or snuggle on the couch or crack out the easel and paints right then. It's actually been paying off drastically.

We let Abigail skip preschool yesterday morning after observing a mini school bus attempting to back down the icy hill behind our house. The kids and I had a lovely day at home, and I think I can safely say it was Abigail's most pleasant and well behaved day... ever (at least since she was older than one). Today may well have been her second. We've really been hitting things off, playing ballerina and princess, dancing and snuggling and coloring and reading to our hearts content. Other things are have been on hold... the sink is full, the laundry piling below the clothes shoot, clutter is accumulating... at least for a while. Those things can wait. Why make the kids? (It seems like such an obvious thing, I know.) They will grow up quickly, their days and years ever-fleeting. Through my ongoing thanksgiving list, it's been becoming more and more clear to me how much so. For now, this seems like the best way to slow down time... to relish every moment I have with these amazing and wonderful little people. Even the moments I used to wish would pass quickly. (There is value in the ugly, in the dark. God uses those moments to reveal himself, as opportunities to grant graces, if I am receptive enough to perceive them in the first place)

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What's with the princess dress, you ask?-- We were dancing to the music of Ever After this morning when Abigail handed me a pillow and said, "This is a present for you. It's a princess dress!" I seemed to recall a certain whimsical dress stashed in our closet that I grabbed from my parents' house a couple of years ago as a possible Halloween costume (I think it's my sister's). So I told her I'd open it upstairs, where I found the dress and put it on to surprise her. The look on her face and the delighted laughter that followed after I came back down wearing it were priceless. She kept looking at me in awe the rest of the morning, like she couldn't believe her mother actually owned a princess dress. "I love your dress, Mom"- she must have told me this a dozen times. The girls and I danced (all of us in costume- even little 'Rus), perfecting our gracefulness (we have a long way to go), until we had to pick up Jack from school and head to Kindersports. And then again after dinner until bedtime (Jack just spun around, a crazed dragon).

Yarn Along

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It's been a while, and last night, with the ground finally completely covered in white (none of that ugly grass poking through business) and single digits promised over the night, I got the urge to knit. A little hat. I've been reading some from a few different books, but I'd have to say that this new Christmas book takes the cake as my current favorite. All of the kids love it and request it over and over. And it's one I'm happy to read on repeat.

Joining Ginny's Yarn Along

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

personal (and honest) hairstylists

Grandma sent home a baggie of unused combs in fun colors with which the kids have been having a blast. Jack and Gail set to work combing my unruly tresses as I sat on the couch. I had to coach them on the how-tos, like start at the bottom, no brushing upward, etc. As they combed, Abigail said, "You're going to look like the most beautiful ballerina!" Jack chimed in, "Yeah, everyone will say, 'Yeah, she looks great!' No one will believe it!" (?) After they finished, and I had a nice comb-over-my-face-do, they inspected their work. I asked, "How do I look?" Jack: "Um, not that great."